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Monday, September 14, 2026 • •
True healing and lasting change don't come from simply understanding ourselves—they come from becoming more like Christ. As we pursue godliness, protect unity, and pursue peace, God transforms our hearts, which ultimately transforms our marriages.
Thursday, September 3, 2026 • •
In this article, Matt Loehr exposes how the "blame game" damages relationships by shifting the focus from personal growth to proving who is right. He introduces the Blame to Bridge Method—a practical, biblical approach that replaces blame with humility, kind communication, and consistent kindness to foster healing, connection, and lasting transformation in marriage and other relationships.
Thursday, August 20, 2026 • •
In this article, Matt Loehr challenges readers to embrace the biblical call to "love like you've never been hurt," choosing forgiveness, grace, and Christlike responses over bitterness and retaliation. Through examples from marriage, family relationships, and everyday interactions, he demonstrates how Spirit-empowered love brings freedom, healing, and a deeper experience of God's transforming power.
Thursday, August 6, 2026 • •
Big changes in marriage often begin with small choices. A kind word, a thoughtful act, and a commitment to love your spouse in the way they best receive it can transform the atmosphere of a relationship.
Wednesday, July 1, 2026 • •
Marriage exposes our weaknesses, but instead of harming the relationship, those weaknesses can become the very place where God works—producing humility, honesty, and deeper connection. When couples stop striving for control and choose surrender, God's strength transforms what feels like a liability into a foundation for a stronger marriage.
Thursday, June 4, 2026 • •
Biblical marriage mentoring is effective because it addresses the heart with God's unchanging truth and the transforming power of the Holy Spirit, producing lasting change rather than temporary symptom relief. Unlike psychology, it restores relationships, and aligns couples with God's design for marriage—offering real hope and transformation.
Thursday, May 7, 2026 • •
Separation in marriage should be a rare, carefully guided step reserved primarily for serious safety issues like abuse, unrepentant addiction, or ongoing infidelity—not a reaction to conflict or emotions. Because most separations lead to divorce, couples are urged to slow down, seek biblical counsel, and pursue healing and accountability before choosing distance that often deepens division rather than restores the marriage.
Thursday, January 22, 2026 • •
This article warns against using texting to resolve conflict in marriage, showing how it fuels misunderstanding, immaturity, and long-lasting damage. Instead, it urges couples to pause, pray, and handle hard conversations face-to-face with humility and love, choosing words that heal rather than wound.
Thursday, January 8, 2026 • •
This article contrasts two approaches to handling conflict in marriage: front-door confrontation vs. back-door confrontation. It emphasizes that choosing patience over anger strengthens relationships and honors God.
Thursday, January 1, 2026 • •
The New Year is the perfect time for couples to renew their marriage by reflecting on the past, setting spiritual goals, improving communication, deepening intimacy, and serving God together. With prayer and intentionality, your marriage can move from simply surviving to truly thriving in the year ahead.
